Showing posts with label Wigs. Show all posts
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Friday, August 16, 2013

Las Vegas, Confidence...and Wigs


I love my new wig...and maybe when I'm all silver I will have my natural hair dyed this color... Hee, hee.
 
What does a lavender wig have to do with anything? Well, it can spark plot ideas, lift the spirits, challenge my costume shopping gene…

Now, what is really funny about this… I had this hairstyle when I was in third grade. In fact, this is one of my all-time favorite school pictures. It wasn’t until I got home from Vegas, where I bought the wig, that I realized how similar these two hairstyles are.
 
Granted, one is a nice brunette, and one is lavender…and take…uh…40something years apart…but I do remember how confident I was at that age. No idea why, really. I guess life hadn’t presented me with any real scary stuff yet.

Third grade was the year the family moved to a new city. First time I dealt with mean girls who were mean just because they could be. Which I didn’t understand at all, so I stood up to them, eyes clear and confident that I was right. (I was.) Ran into a friend I made in that new city a few years ago, who remembered clearly how I made Debbie stop picking on her. I don’t remember it. I guess because it didn’t seem extraordinary to me. It certainly was to L.

I’ve been thinking a lot about confidence lately, as I seem to be falling in and out of black hole regarding what confidence I have. I don’t know if a lavender wig will help me, though I do find a pirate hat at conventions does wonders for my ability to connect with people. (Now, if only all those compliments about the hat would translate into some of these people taking a chance on buying a pirate story…)

Do you remember when you were the bravest kid in school? Or knew the bravest kid in school? Do you think it was a matter of confidence or ignorance? ;-)